Some of us have known from childhood that we were submissive at our core.
Some of us discovered our submissive nature in adulthood.
Some of us are just beginning to realize what is at our core.
Some of us are taking our first baby steps in exploring our submissive selves.
Some of us have been living in submission for years.
Some of us have kept our submissive side a secret from everyone in the "vanilla" world.
Some of us have "come out" to friends and family.
Some of us are alpha females in the working world, by choice or necessity.
Some of us feel submissive in all areas of our lives.
Some of us have explored submission only in our fantasies.
Some of us have been looking but have not yet found the men who can master us.
Some of us have explored a number of Dominant/submissive relationships.
Some of us have found the right fit on the first try.
Some of us have explored submission primarily through role-playing or sexual dynamics.
Some of us have explored submission primarily through online relationships.
Some of us are exploring submission in poly arrangements.
Some of us are consensual slaves, owned by and completely surrendered to our Masters.
Some of us are married to our Dominants or Masters.
Why do we submit?
Some of us submit for practical reasons.
Some of us submit for spiritual reasons.
Some of us submit out of a belief in the "natural order,"
that men have natural leadership instincts and women are innately more submissive.
Some of us submit in spite of ourselves and in spite of what we were brought up to believe about equality of the sexes.
Some of us submit in order to feel safe, protected and cared for.
Some of us submit for the thrill of it.
Most of us would say we submit because we long to, we need to, it feels right, it's who we are.
How do we submit?
Some of us exhibit a docile, respectful demeanor at all times.
Some of us speak our minds, sometimes passionately, sometimes forgetting to be respectful.
Some of us are kept on a short leash.
Some of us crave the leash. Some of us barely feel its tug.
Some of us covet a collar. Some of us are collared for life.
Some of us thrill to a real leash, ropes, chains.
Some of us soar as we sink into mental bondage.
Some of us thrive on pain. Some of us endure pain as a part of our humbling.
Some of us never confront physical pain.
Some of us, first and foremost, serve.
Some of us manage our own submission with little guidance.
Some of us are micromanaged in every aspect of our daily lives.
Some of us are trained in obedience.
Some of us are expected to anticipate the needs and wants of the one whom we serve.
Some of us are into it for fun and games.
What have we found in our quest for submission?
Some of us are fulfilled in the joy of living authentically,
true to ourselves, accepted as ourselves,
finding inner freedom in the forfeiture of certain external freedoms,
finding peace and meaning in surrendering our will to another,
gratefully mindful of our humbled state,
whether kept as animals or as prized possessions.
Some of us are struggling:
Some of us are committed to men who don't have an inkling of our submissive longings.
Some of us live with men who are aware of our submissive longings but have no interest in exploring a Dominant/submissive dynamic.
Some of us are married to one man, owned by another, with the blessing of each.
Some of us live with secrets.
Some of us long for more as we serve men who tap part of our selves, part of the time.
Some of us wonder if we have surrendered to the wrong man.
Some of us falter - in getting started or staying in our place.
Some of us reel from abuse, or neglect, or abandonment, or betrayal.
Some of us submit to the universe, with or without a dominant man in our lives.
We are humbled. We are human.
The Men Who Keep Humbled Females
The men in our community come from a comparable range of backgrounds, relationship dynamics, and inner dynamics, except of course they are stepping up to take charge of their own lives and some or all facets of a submissive female's life.
